Before You Leave Home

Kids leaving home soon? Are they ready? A book to help prepare your kids to live on their own. Covers 30 life choices every kid will face.

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We’re David & Bernice Gudgel. Life has thrown a lot of big decisions at us. Maybe you can relate. Along the way – through good & bad experiences, the wisdom of others, and lots of prayer – we’ve learned lessons that we wish we would have known before. Now, we hope to help you make the best big decisions in life.

Bernice has a degree in Psychology and has focused much of her adult life on raising three kids (who turned out great!) and leading ministries in the church. Dave is a pastor who has a degree in Sociology, an M Div, and a D Min. He’s counseled over a thousand clients and hosted a weekday radio program.

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Every Family Needs an Imaginary Door

If you are a parent who has children in your home, there is a door that it would be helpful for you to always keep in mind. It’s a door that I first heard about when I read Edith Schaeffer’s book What Is a Family? back when my own three kids were running around filling my house with laughter, and tears, and adventures. This oh so important door to keep in mind is simply a door with hinges and a lock. Now you may be thinking that doesn’t sound so special. After all, most doors have hinges and locks. But

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God's Love for You

Religion Won’t Make You Righteous

Many people go through their lives trying to be good enough for God. For some it’s a belief that if they just do more good things than bad things, then they’ll be good to go when they die. Others follow a list of do’s and don’ts that they hope will get them into heaven. Even Christians often rely on a form of religion to supposedly make them righteous and keep God happy. They fall into the trap of thinking it’s what they’re supposed to do if they’re a good Christian. But is that really what God wants from us? Is

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How to Pray according to Jesus

What Jesus Said About Your Prayer Life

When Jesus was teaching His disciples and others on a hill beside the Sea of Galilee, one of the things He talked about was prayer. He began by telling them: Don’t pray in public places simply to be seen and honored by men. The core of your prayer life should be in private – just you and God. Don’t use meaningless repetitive words. Then, in Matthew 6:9-13, we find the words that He told them there on that hillside, and that He tells us today, when He said they should “pray like this…” Our Father who is in heaven, holy

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What Happened on Good Friday Is Good News For Everyone, Everywhere

The story of the Bible shows us that Jesus’ death on the cross was for everyone, everywhere. No matter who you are, the sacrifice that was made on Good Friday was for you too. Life With God When you understand the simple storyline of the Bible, it’s clear that God’s love isn’t for any one people group. It’s for everyone. And the sacrifice Jesus made to make it possible for us to walk with Him in spite of our sin was for everyone. Now, anyone who comes to Him and accepts His gift of forgiveness and grace will have life

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We Need to Be Lookers and Learners…Like a Two-Year Old

Early in our marriage, Bernice had a chat with me about my bathroom behavior. I thought it was fine but she thought otherwise. She explained that I pretty much always left water all over the place – on the counter, on the mirror, and sometimes even on the floor. The amazing things is, I didn’t see it. I just did my bathroom business and then took off without any thought of the condition I left the bathroom in. Which now I see was inconsiderate, unloving, and just plain rude. So she had a chat with me. And you know what

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